Life, Gaming & Blogging

I guess the above title can be an “order of operations” when it comes to the day to day for many of us, life tends to trump the other two, or at least cast a shadow over them for a time. And thus has been the case with me.

Mid November I set myself the goal of producing a new 3D model every month for the next year. The idea being to add them to my online store and increase the products I have on offer while also blogging my progress for motivation. Following no theme save that which takes my fancy, I was determined to keep to my goal, thus in December I made the Dunker Church available and planned to follow up with the Lutheran Church, a generic Wooden Church, the Twin houses from the Battle of Seven Pines, then the Shiloh Church to see me well into the calendar year. This plan is still intact and apart from a minor hiccup or two is still on track.

Then in December everything changed, International borders (with lots of hoop jumping) began the first steps to opening, and after 2 years away I could get home to see my ailing father and offer some in-person support to my mother who is doing an amazing job caring for him. Parkinson’s and Dementia are two whacks from the old age stick that really takes a toll on those around the sufferer. With option now on the table the end of Dec and early Jan would be lived with a focus on seeing parents, supporting them, and jumping through Government hoops required to be allowed to travel. And while it was a very emotionally tiring time, while home my Dad in a moment of clarity asked me “was I meeting Greg to have your yearly game”, and while I had not planned too, at his insistence a game was hastily arranged, and after a 2 year hiatus I got to meet up with my good friend who has influenced my wargaming so often since I took my first tentative ESCI Plastic Soldier steps. (some rather poor photos of the game will follow in a later post)

Now if those two elements were not alone enough to explain how life overshadowed the “Gaming & Blogging”, with travel home now on the table SWMBA* suggested that the can we had been kicking down the road waiting for an end to COVID be picked up. Which is a convoluted way of saying that my fiance suggested that heading home as “husband and wife” would be wonderful. So the end of November and early December were spent in the very hasty planning of our wedding. This went off largely without a hitch a week before we flew to see my parents. So while I am of course very happy with this turn of events and it was the best way to end last year and start 2022 on a high it did impact my Hobby time*.

Added to that my Birthday week is happening now as I return from my parents to the country of my employ and hangovers of course are not really conducive to painting and modelling. So while it’s a happy 52nd birthday to me, I’m not really looking forward to heading back to work next week, but bills to be paid and all that…

So that’s a little update as a way of explanation/excuse. More regular posting should resume as I start to take stock and further work on my planned projects, but I do expect that blogging will always be on the back-burner for me, though I do mean to catch up and start to comment more regularly on some of the great and inspiring work I find others posting since I have been stalking but not commenting in the last months. Mea Culpa.

* She Who Must Be Adored

** Though to be fair to my wife, she totally supports my hobby, and as we start the house looking process to combine our two homes into one, she asked for three things: a bar, a gaming room, and a large closet, preferable walk-in. Even better she wanted them in that order.

Reading (still): Welker, David A., The Cornfield, Antietam’s bloody turning point. (2020) ISBN: 978-1-61200-832-5

11 thoughts on “Life, Gaming & Blogging

  1. Congratulations on getting married. This lady sounds almost to good to be true with her order of house hunting priorities so no wonder you snapped her up. I do fear that long term that A will turn into an O but enjoy the honeymoon period 😉. Tough about your dad but pleased you got to visit at last. With parents of 95 and 90, albeit in reasonable health, its a difficult time for them as well as for me and my family. Good luck house hunting and getting back on track with the fun things in life. 🙂

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    1. Thank you sir. While it is tough with the parents and more so separated by oceans, it is made easier by a new wife that they adore and who is very understanding of the circumstances…and if the A becomes and O but I still get my man-cave that might be a fair exchange?

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  2. Really good to have something nice to read about! 🙂 Congratulations on getting to play a game, getting married and having a birthday, although I’m not sure whether I’ve listed them in the correct order of importance! Glad you got to see your parents in these difficult times!

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  3. Good to hear you’re home safely and settling into married life. I enjoyed our games and catch up over a few beer. Looking forward to seeing you the next time you’re around here. Stay safe, Greg.

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    1. Thanks mate, yes it was great to catch up and keep my unbroken record of loses. Maybe on our next catch-up I might get a win…but where would the fun in that be. 🙂


  4. Well I’d be remiss if I didn’t start with a hearty congratulations. Life right now is pretty rough for most of us so making the most of the good bits is pretty important, and your wife sounds lovely.

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